in an isolationship !

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Meet Paul Willard

  • General Manager in IT
  • The University of Waikato
  • Lives in Hamilton, New Zealand ðŸ‡ģðŸ‡ŋ ó Ū󠁚󠁷ó Ŧó Ŋó ŋ
  • Straight Man

Are you an adventurous gal? I fancy a heap of adventure! Want to create an adventure together?

I snowboard, ride a motorcycle, mountain bike (a little bit), dance (ceroc/modern jive), fish, tramp, all sorts of things.

I play guitar during my downtime, and watch a whole heap of movies.

Pretty much your average single bloke.
Own a house, motorbike (road bike), boat, ute, big tv, dog (not an agro dog ðŸķ ðŸū ðŸū), snow gear etc ðŸĪĢ

I live alone, and have adult kids that have long since left home.

I don't exercise for the sake of exercise. I do stuff that keeps me fit-ish 😊

I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'll tell you my life story if you can bare listening to it 😂

I value kindness, honest, integrity, and the oxford comma ðŸĪ“

I'm looking for

A woman aged between 34 and 54 ish.

Interested in the normal stuff .. genuineness, compassion, caring, kindness etc.

Eventually someone to make stories with, that loves me, and wants to be loved by me. In the meantime someone to get to know, and share some fun things together.

The perfect day has a touch of adrenalin, a dab of chill, and is worth remembering.

  • 🏂 Snowboarding, followed by a beer or wine?
  • ðŸ›Ĩïļ A day on the boat, with an ice cold Kombucha at the end of the day?
  • 🏍ïļ A spin on the motorbike, ending in a spa, relaxing?
  • ðŸšī A mountain bike ride, with a skinny dip, in a secluded spot, in a river somewhere?

The shallow bit: I would prefer someone who is comfortable in her own skin / body 👙.
This shows 2 things that I find important; self care, and confidence.


Ok, Paul, can I stalk you on social media?

Sure ! 😏
Here I am on Instagram
Here I am on Facebook
Here I am on Youtube
Here I run my own blog
Here is my professional profile
And here is a technical blog I run

Alright, alright, I'm convinced

How do I get in touch with you?

Well, you can phone ðŸ“ą or text 💌 me, please introduce yourself.
+6421638223
You could Send me an Email ✉ïļ, please introduce yourself.

💎 Or you could contact me through the social media sites above (slide into my DMs 😏 💘 )

I'd love to hear from you though, talk soon 💖 💞 👋
Paul Willard.

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